Change can be an unwieldy beast

Take back control

The Gaining Polarity System, or GPS for short, is a guide to making sense of life and giving it structure and direction when your world's been turned upside down.  Whether you instigate the change, or it finds you, it's something you can never truly plan for becasue every change is different.

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Change fills your mind with questions

Now find the answers

Change happens and your mind goes into overdrive:
What do I do now? How could this have happened? What if this is the wrong decision? How do I make this better? Am I a bad mum? How come I’m the only one not coping? 

First, breathe.  Then, use the GPS and break the change down into manageable pieces. Take what you learn, find answers and move forward.  You've got this.

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Get help with:

  • Where to start with change and how to get a handle on what’s just happened.
  • Knowing when to take action and when to step back and allow life to unfold.
  • The steps you can take to understand change and work with it, instead of against it.
  • Tips on what you can do to influence change in your world.

Here's a little sneak peak!

How does the GPS work?
Any life change is a journey. There’s a starting point when your world begins to change, an end point when you think you’ve made it through, and a pathway between the two. That pathway can have twists and turns, roundabouts, and hairpin bends, or it can be a direct line from start to end.

The GPS consists of three key tools to help you on this journey:
  1. A compass,
  2. A road map, and
  3. A travel guide.

The compass is a tool to plot your location on the change landscape and keep you on track with where you need to go next. It helps with approaching change as an experience rather than something to get through and tick off your list, and works hand-in-hand with the road map and travel guide to give you direction and move you forward, or slow you down as needed. I like to think of the compass as my sanity check-point: if I feel like I’m losing it or simply going nowhere, I come back to the compass and check in: where am I up to? Where do I go next?

The road map is a five-step guide through change. Use the road map as instructions to work through from step 1 to 5, repeating any or all of the steps as many times as you need to make progress towards your end goal. Like any of the GPS tools, the road map can be applied to both simple and complex changes.

The travel guide has two parts:
  1. A checklist of items to pack for your journey, and
  2. A guide to key landmarks to explore along the way.

The travel guide is full of tips and activities that will help you work your way through change, with space for you to journal and take notes. A key point I learned along the way through change, is that ‘processing’ life change isn’t just a list of things to do, it usually involves a whole lot of soul searching too. The travel guide part of the GPS brings together the key areas of personal change and soul searching I’ve explored and revisited each time change has swept through. It gives ideas for following the road map and using the compass and implementing them your way. (I say ‘ideas’ because every journey is different and there’s always more than one way to do something!).

The GPS as a whole gives you a systemised way to proceed through life’s challenging, confusing, and overwhelming moments. It isn’t the crystal ball you’d sometimes like to have in times of change, but its structure will give you reassurance when everything else seems out of control.

Using the road map, compass, and travel guide, you’ll come to approach change (and life!) from a completely different perspective. Change is usually uncomfortable, it can even be a little (or a lot) scary, but with the GPS you have a strategy that keeps you on track, and in tune with where you’re at along the way.

About the Author

Gillian is a country-girl at heart and has first-hand experience in navigating stress and change.  Burnout from a corporate career led her to change life direction to one more supportive of self; and now she helps others do the same!

Creating personal change takes a combination of logic and strategy, soul searching and insight.  Gillian still draws on her information management background to create systems and strategise, but these days makes sure her heart is part of her decision-making and life choices with happier results.

Turn your world the right way up

Starting now

Every change starts with one step, and then another, and another - until you get to where you want to go.
Want to stop struggling with the unknown?  Take your foot off the brake and start to move - forward.
The first step is up to you. 
What are you waiting for?

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